One is not a minimalist. One is making room for what is important and HE is important. Co-decorating is potentially fraught and I have to admit I have very definite opinions about what is tacky and what I want in my rooms and on my walls. I am fortunate to have a partner who is not particularly concerned with decor, happy to leave that sort of thing up to me. For someone like me that is the definition of compatibility. Compatible taste would also be ideal but I suspect it could be rare. Compromise is required in a relationship. Some give and take and respect for what the partner values is a must as is re-visiting and reconsidering what we value ourselves.
That's why making room for someone else requires letting go of things that I do not love or use. It isn't about declaring less is better or more is better, but that the goal is a just right amount. Is it called The Goldilocks Principle?
And speaking of too much or not enough.....
I am trying to find my own personal balance of less and more in my art. I often over-paint, finding my way by adding more, covering it up if I don't like it, changing it a little or a lot. Sometimes I completely cover over a canvas and paint something else on top. Sometimes I regret this but most of the time I don't. Sometimes I paint something quickly. It's simple, and takes maybe an hour. I like it so I stop and yet I wonder how can it be any good if it was so quick and easy?
The painting on the bottom is now buried under the painting on the top. I wasn't achieving what I wanted. There were three incarnations of the painting above and I didn't like them so I slapped a ton of paint on top and obliterated it, creating the painting above it. Now that I look at it in a photo I like it. I wonder why I was upset with it. But there's a life lesson in there somewhere. Maybe more than one. And I can paint again. Perhaps the painting on the bottom was meant to teach me something. Probably it was meant to teach me not to be so impatient and so hard on myself, but do I ever learn that lesson?
In the photo I really like the bottom painting but in reality it irked me. It looked over-painted. It looked like too much. As a photo it is inspiration. I painted my way into it, not knowing where I was going. Now that I know I want to go there, perhaps I can again, more directly, with more purpose next time.